THE KIND OF WOMAN EVERY MAN WANTS TO MARRY {PART 1}

THE KIND OF WOMAN EVERY MAN WANTS TO MARRY {PART 1}

   Aside from attention, trust, beauty, being presentable and the likes of other qualities that men sought for in a lady, there are other characteristics that brothers look up to in a lady. I’ll be outlining these qualities and I’ll advise ladies to look into these areas and adjust in any area they’re lacking.

SALVATION

   The first quality most brothers are looking for is for you to be saved. You must be born again and submit to the will of God. You must have accepted Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Saviour. You must be someone that has a passion for The Kingdom of God in your heart. Working for God doesn’t mean in this case but knowing him personally and experientially is needed also.

PEACE/A GOOD HEART

   Another quality is a woman that will do him good and not evil all the days of his life. Beyond love, men actually want peace and stability. They just want a woman who’ll give them peace because we all know the world is war enough plus the demons we fight.

   As a lady, you can’t be in a relationship with your partner and be giving your partner unnecessary problems for him during courtship and expect him not to think twice before marrying you. We all know of the most marital problem that is being broadcasted all around and we know of cases of women killing their husbands due to minor disagreement in their marriages. Most men don’t want to be in the same shoe after hearing things like that so they want a woman with a good heart that won’t give marital problems.

AN HARDWORKING WOMAN

   A woman that works willingly with her hand is another quality that men seek in a woman. This is an aspect some ladies fail to recognize. They’ll want their partner to be the only the breadwinner of the family and, hence, they’ll want to be a full housewife. Permit me to tell you, sister, men don’t want a liability again, they want to marry an asset, a woman with a realistic vision. They want someone that can support them financially in their marital life. The financial problem has affected most marriages and even scattered most and, hence, most men don’t want to be in the same shoes when they go into a relationship with you. As a lady, you should be able to drop #20000 when your husband drops #100000 and so on. This also helps in running a marriage smoothly.

   When a guy sees you as an asset, he’ll love and cherish you but if you’re a liability to him, get ready to have a problem with him.

 ABILITY TO COOK

  Another quality is a lady that can cook good food at the right time. As little as the situation of food is, it has scattered marriages. Men want a woman that can cook a sumptuous meal. This act uses to make them love their wives the more as they’ll be contented with what they eat at home than what they eat outside their home. Most ladies that don’t know how to cook usually end up losing their husbands to someone else outside their marital home so cooking is another criteria that men look out for in most women. Pray and religious activities shouldn’t stop you from cooking for your husband at the right time and in the right way.

   I’ll try to stop here for now and continue in the next article but I’ll want ladies to think deep and adjust in any way they’re lacking so that our spiritual brothers will stop falling into the hands of carnal ladies who work on the qualities that resemble love and therefore bring down the spiritual state of these men.