THE KIND OF WOMAN EVERY MAN WANTS TO MARRY {PART 2}


THE KIND OF WOMAN EVERY MAN WANTS TO MARRY {PART 2}
   In part one of this article, I wrote out a few qualities that men want in a lady that we ladies are lacking. I’ll continue from where I stopped in the last article and I hope we’ll understand every bit of the sentences that are embedded in this article.
BEAUTY
   The place of beauty cannot be neglected. Men also want a presentable woman. Permit me to tell you ladies that no lady is ugly because beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. It just depends on the way you manage yourself. Don’t think you’re ugly and hereby focus more on spiritual things than your outward appearance.
 Excuse me ma, you can be a charming and a spiritual sister, plait your hair, put on classy clothes that give glory to God. It’s not until you put on a mini skirt or spaghetti top before you’ll be pretty. These are the things that the ladies out there are using to trap our brothers and make them fall in the journey of faith. It’s high time we stopped using religious activities as an excuse for taking care of our outward appearance.
 You’ll meet a lady that can pray non-stop for 24hrs but whenever she goes out, she dresses shabbily or whenever you visit her in her house, the odor that comes from her room isn’t palatable or whenever she passes by you, her body odor is so bad and she can pray with so much strength and passion as if God is against us taking care of our body or dressing in an exotic manner that gives glory to him.
 Even as guys are looking for a spiritual lady, they’re also looking for a beautiful and presentable lady at that.
WISDOM
   An adage says, “Behind every successful man, there’s always a woman”, but permit me to also tell you that, “behind some unsuccessful man, there’s also a woman”.
   Before guys will go into a relationship or marital affair with a lady, they want someone that can also assist them in achieving their dreams and visions when they marry. Have you not seen guys that will have nothing before marriage but you’ll see a turn around when he marries? This is mostly a result of the kind of woman he marries who was able to use her specially given wisdom from God to assist her husband in the financial and prosperity aspect of his life.
   Gus wants to marry a lady that whenever he has an issue, he will be able to discuss it with his wife and both of them will ponder on the issue and arrive at a reasonable condition.  The Bible even said it in Prov. 14vs1, “Every wise woman builds her own house; but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands”.
VIRTUOUS WOMAN
   Another quality that men want in a lady they want to marry is the lady with good characteristics. Men want a lady that is patient, submissive, of a good heart, trustworthy and the likes.
   As a lady, you can’t be unsubmissive during courtship and expect a guy not to think twice before marrying you even if you’re the will of God for his life. Guys don’t want a problem for themselves during marriage and so aside love, what they long for is peace of mind. Submission goes a long way in winning the heart of a man.
   Guys also want a patient lady that can understand them and tolerate them. A guy who’s broke at the moment and has to wait till the month-end to collect his salary but has a wife who’s not patient and cannot wait till the end of the month will have a problem in his marriage.
   These are the characteristics that men are looking out for in a lady before they’ll go on a journey of marriage because this is a lifetime journey. I’ll want our spiritual ladies to ponder upon these words.

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