WHY CHRISTIAN SISTERS DON’T MARRY CHRISTIAN BROTHERS

WHY CHRISTIAN SISTERS DON’T MARRY CHRISTIAN BROTHERS

     This is specifically for my Christian brothers who are looking forward to a happy home and to those who want to ask a Christian sister out.

    It has come to my notice that most Christian sisters actually end up their life in the hands of worldly brothers while we Christian brothers just fold our hands and see our beautiful sisters which are our crush being hijacked from us. This is as a result of some reason which I’ll be discussing in the following points.

1} Dress Sense: Most of our Christian brothers are accustomed to T-shirt and trousers{loosely fitted} with sometimes an oversized shoe. Have you ever dressed and ask yourself if you’re presentable?

Even though our sisters are spiritual, they actually want someone they can present to the outside world. We’ve accustomed designers {Balenciaga, Fendi…etc} to be clothes worn by people of the world and we are accustomed to T-shirt which is sometimes not well ironed. Excuse me, sir, putting on a Phillip Plein top doesn’t stop you from speaking in tongues. You can be on your Adidas slide and be scaboshing for Christ. It all depends on your motive. It’s time we gain an understanding of these things. How can a Christian Sister enter your room and it’s scattered or your plates which have been used 3 days ago are still unwashed or you’re using a boxer for a month. Let’s think about these things my brothers.

2} Cooking: Most of our Christian brothers cannot cook a palatable meal. It is either the salt is too much or not enough or the food is too spicy.

   Sir, go and change and learn these things. Learn how to cook and let that sister fall in love with your cooking. We’ve got different love languages, she’s a human too so she can fall in love through your cooking.

3} Romanticism: This is the most painful aspect of the heart of our sisters. Brothers, we’re not romantic at all. Whenever a sister posts a beautiful picture of hers on her status, some of our comments are, ’’Bless you ma’’ or some will even reply to them saying, ‘’hope your prayer altar is still intact’’. I’m not saying it’s wrong to ask but comments like that aren't right to that type of posts. Does posting pictures mean you’re not spiritual?

    Also, whenever we’re chatting with them, they want to feel the impact of our chats on them. We can ask how their day went if they’ve eaten and some other things that can make them feel happy whenever they’re chatting with us. They also have a heart and this can make them crush or fall in love with us.

    Being romantic isn’t saying something erotic or worldly. It’s bringing their mind to rest whenever they’re chatting with us. This can actually make a sister trust us and confide in us and share most of her secrets with us.

     It’s time we come to the knowledge of these things because tongues cannot run your marriage for you, sir if you’re not romantic on the other end.

4} Confirmation from God: This is very common among brothers. I tell you, sir, even if God says, don’t use that as a wooing technique. If God confirms her as your wife to be, ask her out normally and let her go and confirm from God. We can just use the confirmation as a backup and not as the main technique for wooing. Some will tell a sister “God says…” and later go back to them that God didn’t say anything again. You can make a sister fall through this.

    You don’t have a good dress sense sir, you’re a bad cook, you’re not even romantic but you can speak in tongues from now till tomorrow. You’ll now go to a sister a say “God says…”. How do you want her to believe you when she knows you lack marriage qualities.

     Let me stop here, but I’ll want us to ponder on these things. Our Christian sisters also which to marry Christian brothers but we’re not showing them the qualities that we can make them hay when it comes to marital life nor do they trust us when it comes to marital issues.