WHY MEN CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES

WHY MEN CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES

     We believe love is the basis for a relationship, but based on research and study, love isn’t the main thing that men want in a relationship. Men actually want peace and stability.

      This is the reason why you’d see a guy that dated a lady for up to 3 years and eventually, break up, efforts wasted, but then there goes another who barely met each other couple of months ago and they are already sure they are ready to spend the rest of their lives together.

     So the thing is men want stability. They just want a woman who gives them peace, cause as we all know the world is war enough plus the demons we fight. I’ll be sharing few of the reason why men cheat on their wives and I hope we’ll be able to gain understanding from them.

(1)  Most men cheat because they are not getting full attention from their wife:- As a working wife, you’re leaving home as early as 7am and get home as late as 6pm. You’ll be so tired because you’ve got to take care of the chores especially if you’ve given birth. Now at night, when your husband wants to copulate with you and you keep telling him you’re tired, if this should go on for days, he’ll want to satisfy his sexual pleasure elsewhere and this he’ll do by cheating on you.

(2)  Men also cheats to get back at a cheating wife:- Research has shown that men are literally more emotional than women, it’s just that they don’t show this emotion. You might say I watch too many movies but let’s take, for instance, a woman who cheats on her husband with his best friend. There’s obviously no other sweeter payback than for the man to bring another woman into their matrimonial home and that as a payback for his wife because he’s obviously no longer in his right sense, he feels betrayed and pained.

  We all know that cheating is stressful, demeaning, a betrayal of trust and loyalty. So why not just stay committed to your partner and if you can’t, why not just play the single card until you’re able to figure it all out.

(3)  Pressure can also make a man cheat:- Most men also cheat as a result of intimidation and pressure. For instance, a man working in a multinational company, handsome, has more than enough to live by and then, and there’s this newly transferred pretty young lady who’s hell-bent on having this guy all to herself irrespective of the fact that he’s married. Of course, we know women have a devilish way of luring a man and warming his bed. So she devises ways of all sorts, put pressure on this guy and the guy can actually give in if he’s not getting much attention from his wife or they’re both having issues at home.

   

     Marriage is a lifetime commitment and cheating reduces that commitment and covenant to a piece of shit. Cheating breaks trust diminishes love, makes love look stupid, and breaks the family bond. You may wonder why there are more divorces and broken homes nowadays, cheating has contributed majorly to that feat.

    Let’s all be careful and intentional with all that we do cause there’s Karma. It may not make sense but it’s the fact of life.